This article appeared in the Christian Standard, August 28, 1988, page 10.
It is reprinted here for your encouragement.

In conversations with other ministers I have found that all ministers have situations and people that have left them feeling defeated, ready to go sell used cars or insurance. At times I have wondered how it is possible for members to alter the exhortation, "Encourage one another and build each other up" (1 Thessalonians 5:11) to, "Discourage one another, and tear each other apart."

At times being a minister of the good news of Jesus Christ can be a very lonely function. Believe me, I have been there. So have many of my colleagues. Too often the response of a minister is to pack up his books, submit his resignation, and move on. But let me encourage you, both preacher and congregation, to "tough it out."

After weathering a rather strong storm brought on by a couple of people in the church, I felt extremely lonely and ready to look elsewhere. I even considered "secular" employment. I was not asked to leave, but I was not asked to stay either. I cried a lot, I asked a lot of questions of myself and of God. I prayed. I sought the advice from friends. It was a time of confusion and unrest. In the midst of this turmoil, my gut level feeling was to tough it out.

WHY DO IT? Here's what helped me make that decision.

1. God's Promises. "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything" (James 1:2-4).

God's Word is true. He keeps His promises. I must trust Scripture to guide me even when I don't feel like being guided, especially during the dark periods of life.

2. God's People. Two individuals played a big role in helping me through this tough time. My dad was visiting at the time and offered me the encouragement and support to tough it out. He listened and listened and helped direct my attitudes. Thanks, Dad! LeRoy Lawson didn't know he helped me, but I recalled something he had said in a message once: "If it is worth accomplishing; it is worth toughing it out."

The church I serve is located in a rapid growing community, but the church has not been growing. Many are lost and need to hear the message of God's love. It is worth toughing it out. Thanks for the words of wisdom, LeRoy! These two men of God along with a minister's support group of which I am a part, enabled me to persevere and tough it out.

3. God's Purpose. "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations" (Matthew 28:19). The opportunity for bringing people to Jesus Christ in this community is tremendous. My personal desire for reaching these people became stronger as I redefined my purpose for being where I was.

It has been a tough year, but I am thankful that I toughed it out! I have grown stronger in my faith and God has blessed the congregation I serve with new growth and new challenges. He continues to open new doors of opportunity to share the gospel.